It does not take a genius to realize how quickly life changes.  The last few months my life has been in a constant state of change.   I have added a new addition to my family and lost one.  I have learned to be a Trooper's wife.  I have learned to juggle three boys on my own when needed.  I have learned to give that student that forgot his homework for the third time this week a break because HE does not have parents at home that make sure he has finished it.  I have learned laughter is less tiring than anger.  I have learned to be still and listen.  I have learned to move quickly because life changes so fast.  I have learned that life will change whether it is wanted or not.  I have learned that I have the ability to live life with grace, patience, and love.  I have so many blessings and opportunities that many just hope and wish for.  I have the chance to make a difference in so many little lives each and everyday.  As Christmas gets closer and I think about my family, my life, and the choices I get to make everyday, I am thankful that I have Christ as my example.  As the new year approaches I hope to gain wisdom, knowledge, and strength to be a better example for others, for my husband, and for my kids.  I hope I leave each person I come in contact with a little happier than they were before.  I pray I will make a positive difference in the lives of people around me.